>40 by 40

>My 30th birthday is just over one week from right now. I haven’t feared this milestone until just recently. I mean, 30 isn’t THAT old. When I’m honest with myself, it’s really not the number that affects me. Instead, it’s the things I thought I would have accomplished by the time I reached this point that cause me to pause with mild disappointment.

I know that life is a continuous string of days and events, but for some reason this impending birthday seems to be a do-over point. Much like New Year’s Day to the 10th degree. I can reset my clocks, wipe the slate clean, start my life anew. This is silly because of course I can do these things at any point. It just seems like now is the perfect time to do it. Maybe my poor health lately makes me feel like age is more than just a number. Maybe it’s wisdom settling into my bones a bit more now that I’m (almost) not a witless 20-something. Maybe it’s regret I feel over some things left undone in my 20’s. In any case, I felt strongly to come up with a list of 40 things I want to have accomplished/seen/done by the time I’m 40. It occurs to me now that I left off a lot of altruistic items like, “see doctors cure cancer” or “world peace finally attained.” I guess I assume everyone wants those things. These things are just for me. I must note that I fully retain the right to change this list on a whim any time I please.

Katie’s 40 by 40
(not in any order)

1. Visit Disney World
2. Go on a culinary tour of Italy
3. Go on a culinary tour of Paris
4. Take a cruise vacation
5. Pay off all my debt
6. Be at a healthy weight
7. Eat more whole, organic, locally-grown foods
8. Read 12 books per year OR 120 books by the time I’m 40
9. Be in the habit of working out at least 15 minutes daily
10. Find a hair cut that I love
11. Understand baseball
12. Get a great camera and learn how to use it well
13. Learn to play piano
14. Learn to play guitar
15. Learn Spanish
16. Read the bible from start to finish
17. Improve my complexion
18. Start a great ministry
19. See everyone in my family come to know and love Christ
20. Stop cursing
21. Be known for a dish that I make
22. See these artists perform live (again or for the first time): Neil Young, Van Morrison, Emmylou Harris, Metallica, Marc Broussard, (to be continued/added to)
23. Live in New York City – even if for just one year
24. Go to Las Vegas with my Grandma Alice at least one more time
25. Learn to bake like my mom
26. Learn to be rebellious like my dad (to a point!)
27. Become a mother (either by birth or adoption or surrogacy)
28. Find a beer that I enjoy drinking
29. Learn to bake bread
30. Create things that people love so much, they would pay money for them
31. Decorate my home well
32. Have a great garden
33. Finish at least one more cross-stitch project
34. Catalog family photos with my dad
35. Enjoy one last good conversation with Grandma Jordan.
36. Worry less
37. Rent a beach house with my family for an awesome vacation
38. See the ruins in Greece
39. Go on a genealogy tour of Holland, Germany and the British Isles
40. Be on The Price is Right

There. If I can do those things, I’ll be at perfect peace and happiness, right? πŸ™‚

Ten years is a long time to cross these things off my list. As I look at all of these items, I have to think of some things that will probably happen during the next decade:

  1. Tayla and Damon will graduate high school, and may even marry and/or have kids
  2. Kamryn and Clarissa will be in high school: dating, learning to drive, getting grounded and turning into women
  3. Harrison will be here, and will be a tall, lanky 10 year old
  4. Grandma Jordan will probably have passed away – one of the great saints of my life. (She’s 99 now, if she’s alive in 10 years, someone please call Willard Scott!)
  5. My parents will continue to age – hopefully well.
  6. My brother may marry a wonderful woman that fits right in to our crazy family
  7. One or more of our pets will probably die.
  8. We may move once, twice, 5 times! Who knows?
  9. If I remain in my current job, I will have at least one change in bosses.

Some things will continue to be the same though:

  1. Tragedy will continue to strike.
  2. Happiness will continue to prevail.
  3. Matt and I will continue to love each other strongly and deeply.
  4. God will continue to be sovereign.

Life is an exciting journey, and after the craziness I’ve been through lately, I just have to say that I’m so glad to still be traveling this road.


3 thoughts on “>40 by 40

  1. >i heart this post. a lot. i turn 30 in 4 months and 1 day – you make me want to sit down and make my own 40 by 40. and reflect on the whats and what nots that have helped make me who i am by 30. life certainly is crazy…..

  2. >Sadly, next week I will officially be closer to 40 than 30 (turning 36- ICK!) and I have not done many of the things I "thought" I would want to do in my life. I have however accomplished the things I figured out are the most important- I have met and married my best friend and love of my life, been blessed with 2 of the most amazing kids a mother could ask for and I have found that God loves me no matter what. The rest is just icing on the cake πŸ™‚ I did however see a couple of things in your list I'd like to do myself!! Maybe by the time I'm 50 πŸ˜‰

  3. >What a great post! I love this idea. I will turn 30 in less than 3 months so its been on my mind, too! Have you tried Blue Moon beer with a slice of orange squeezed in it? Its my favorite! I also like Bud Light with Lime. Good luck finding one- I'm a little embarassed that the only item on your list I comment about is beer! πŸ˜€ Love you,Courtney Westfall

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